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I found a great post on How To Build A Better Blog today that helps marketers understand the reason for linking to other sites, even your competition. Totally backwards from what we marketers from the mid to late 90s learned about lin... [Read More]

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Chris Cree

I see being stingy with links as an insecure scarcity mindset. With something over a billion internet users, there are plenty enough to go around.

If all the folks who come to your blog leave through links to competitors and don't come back the problem is a lack of quality of your content and writing, not too much quality in your links!

Chris McElroy aka NameCritic

I agree with the first comment. If your competitors are leaving your content might be the problem.

However, in the old days we called all links out to anyone, "traffic holes" and discouraged it.

Both mindsets have pluses and minuses and different websites, services, and products, should decide uniquely what to do with their own website.

Example; I don't link to other people who sell the exact same thing I do. I provide text content. However I would link to someone who provides mulitmedia or photo content.

In that case I am providing value to my customers and if they know they can find all kinds of links to content through my website, I'm the one they are bookmarking.

While they visit me to find what they are looking for, they may also buy from me.

Just an opinion, but each case is different so your mileage may vary.

Rebecca Prescott

I agree with Chris aka 'Namecritic'. A scarcity mindset can be very insidious, and I think if you're 'feeding' it by worrying about losing a certain (small) percentage of visitors through links to good quality information, then it's no doubt affecting other areas of your online business too.

I think there's a few things going on here, not least is the credibility that you can build up with visitors by becoming a central resource - including listing other recommended or discussed sites. Look at all the true authority sites - Wikipedia, About, etc. Do they worry about lisnking to other good sites? People go back to them again and again because not only do they provide value in their articles, but they provide valuable resources to other, related information. Look at the Social Bookmarking sites - nothing but links!

Even when sites are on similar themes, no one is going to be a carbon copy of another - unless it has been swiped, of course. Everyone has a unique perspective, a slightly different way of looking at issues, the world... everyone has a different value system, and the way they present information (even when it seems they have NO value system - lol!), is unique. Our value system causes us to omit things, place greater importance on others (not unlike the subject matter of this page :-)).

Even amongst those that present similar viewpoints, they have a different way of explaining things. So, if you're committed to providing value from your end, there should be nothing to worry about. What's the difference between a link 'hoarder' and someone who hoards, say, money? There's a fundamental level of insecurity in both.

On another level, no-one can truly expect to provide everything to everybody within their niche (I mean to their potential customers or visitors). It's a little arrogant to think so, and if you don't think so, then it's a little selfish (towards those customers/visitors) to effectively try and build a dead-end street that can't possibly fulfill all their needs/answer all their questions, on a given subject anyway.

Finally - people are more than able to click back and go onto the next site in the search results anyway. Why not build a true resource for them in the first place?

Franck Silvestre

Your post is right on the subject. I consider myself like a Blogger newbie, and it is great to find a post like yours because I was wondering why the successful blogs are linking all the time to their competitors.

I like your blog.

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